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Benjamin Tan
29 June
18
Advanced Diploma Hospitality Management
Polytechnic West
City Harvester
W193
Sports Leader
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![]() Benjamin Tan 29 June 18 Advanced Diploma Hospitality Management Polytechnic West City Harvester W193 Sports Leader music.
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G'day People.My name is Benjamin, most people call me Ben or Benben I was borned and raised in Singapore But I came to Australia 2 years ago to persue my studies in Hospitalty Management Currently Working for Tony Roma's Perth and 399 Bar I just simply love cooking and bartending I enjoy Badminton and playing pool as well I used to be from Marsiling Secondary School and proud to say that i'm from MSL badminton and Sports Leaders Council I'm proud to be from City Harvest Church and from N246 I LOVE EVERYONE!!! friends.
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TALK TO ME!!!Monday, 16 February 2009 Recently, i came to realise that I've been having this problem.. It's hmmm.. how to say leh.. a problem with my mentality.. I came to know this problem when i was working one of the nights.. It's about my mentality towards people around me.. Or the different people whom i see in the street everday.. I came to realise that it's really easy to think negative and find faults in people.. But I never seem to realise people's strengths.. what areas are they good at.. It's like for example.. when i see somene walk past me in the streets.. I will tend to see some fault in them.. like example, in what they are wearing, how they look like etc... Or when i see someone doing something wrong.. i find myself really really fast to pint-point at their mistake.. It seems to me that this was something that was reallybothering me.. So i began to observe others as well.. And to actual fact.. i realised that almost everyone out there is like me.. I think we all have Pride in us.. that makes us unable to compliment someone else for whatever they've done good.. Well, let's not talk about others.. Before i talk bout others.. i have to reflect on this area on myself first.. I've been lately, trying to find out people around me.. starting with my friends in sch and work.. Learning how to praise them.. Praising people makes them feel good about themself.. And i really want friends who are confident about themself.. at the same time being humble.. It's a lot bettter than having friends with super low self-esteem.. Bcoz i rmb like what pastor kong preached ystd, that Self-esteem is the foundation of our lives.. I don't want to be someone who's critical.. I don't want to be someone who only finds fault in people.. Because that's what the world is about.. I want to be someone who appreciates people around me.. I want to be someone who loves people despite knowing their weaknesses and strengths.. I want to be someone who knows how to praise people and make them feel good =) This is gonna be really hard for me.. Because, its basically human nature to be someone negative.. If there's no challenge to this.. i don't see a need to perservere on and try my all.. I will be positive.. and I'll stay strong.. God, be there with me.. Remind me.. Labels: Australia, Thoughts and Feelings |